Thank you for sharing your trading journey and valuable advice. Controlling emotions and discipline are indeed crucial for success in trading.I literally struggled with this for a couple years till I learned to control my emotions and become consistent. I and probably everyone else who experienced this will agree that fear of loosing most of the times makes you exit trades too soon or dont react when there is a setup. Being up $100 where my TP was at $500 and being scared of loosing that trade pushed me to exit too early and missing out on A LOT of profits. I 've had some help and now can control my emotions.
TIP to everyone:
Be patient, and stick to your strategy and wait for a setup. Dont trade unless theres a signal to enter or exit
Your insight about not letting past experiences cloud your judgment is spot on. Every trade should be evaluated independently based on its own merits.It is one of the most common aspects of trading psychology. You need to overcome that for your discipline.
One of the biggest mistakes because of the fear of losing is not letting your winners run. Say that you have a position and it is going well, and you are already up by like a 4%. Then it comes down to 2%+, goes back up to 5%+ profit. You liquidate the position just because you fear that it might come down to 1% or 0%. or even turn red. But after you close down the position for a profit, it skyrockets and moves up another 20%+. You basically left money on the table, you were right, but you could not take advantage of it.
That's why you need to stop installing biases into your psychology, every position is a new one and you have to have fresh mental power to deal with every single position indviidually, and not make decision based on collective memory of what happened before.
Let's remind ourselves to stay disciplined and not let fear drive our decision-making process.When traders let fear of losing take the wheel, they often make impulsive decisions, like panic selling during a dip or overtrading to recoup losses.